Friday, June 24, 2005

Life

If bloggers were honest, I think we'd all admit that part of the appeal of blogging is to "display" our own little achievements for the world to marvel in. Much like male birds cleverly concoct mesmerising ritual dances to display their plumage as signs of good, healthy, strong genes. In bloggerdom, feathers not as such, but perhaps a killer sense of humour or rather, proof that one really does know what to do in life and really has a clue of where one's heading. A quick browse through blogger.com quickly proves the point in case.

A minority of sites however, lament the trials and tribulations of life. Single beacons of sorrow amidst an abundance of happiness. When given a chance, we'd all steer clear of them. No good wallowing in the unavoidable.

Which is why I shall keep this posting succinct. Fi and I have decided to call it a day after 2.5 wonderful years together. Much to our distress, we reached the stage beyond the honey-moon days in which we both needed to figure out if whatever's left between us, is enough to carry on. It's such a tough decision. We've thought things through, taken time together as well as apart and while some things always have been so incredibly great and right between us, it seems we've reached a sort of stalemate which makes it impossible to continue as a couple. So, from now on, Zoologist and Physicist will be blogging seperate life stories. Though there will undoubtedly always remain parallels :-)


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At 6:30 pm, Anonymous Anonymous said...

well...love is a great thing to experience... again and again and again.

Reasons to be sad:
- soul mates are hard to find
- mobile phone contracts are not easily cancelled
- real pals are hard to find
- changing apartments every so often is an administrative burden
- all the things that were good
- this tricky feeling of being sheltered
- lovers that become friends

Reasons to be happy:
- the world is yours to discover and conquer
- mobile phones are a pain in the... any way
- pals don't stay lovers
- apartments are only shells
- all the things that were bad
- shelter must become boring
- friends can become lovers

And for both of you: people can only be happy together
if they first are happy with themselves

I love you Fi
I love you Sarah
Life goes on, we might as well enjoy it!

 

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